[pick] a quarrel

to intentionally seek or provoke an argument, dispute, or disagreement with someone

He was in a bad mood and decided to pick a quarrel with his colleague over a minor issue.
Their habit of picking quarrels with neighbors led to strained relationships in the community.
She often picks quarrels with her siblings over matters that could be easily resolved.
He seems to enjoy picking quarrels on online forums, leading to heated debates.
Instead of picking a quarrel, it's better to communicate calmly and resolve issues amicably.